How to be Polite?

Roger Simpson
Classroom Etiquette

Purpose Statement

What is etiquette in the classroom? Traditionally it has assured a lack of student success because it is yet another of those admin-education concepts more geared toward administrator and teacher ego security than learning.
Assuming students won't be polite is another of those assumptions that inhibits the possibility of trust and the probability of learning. Unfortunately to loosen etiquette or its other disguise, professionalism, requires the teacher to evaluate just where they "are" with students.
A trusting rapport eliminates most etiquette problems and increases student success.

 

Description of Activity

To loosen up the classroom environment in ways that education can break through tradition.

 

Application

First, trust must rise and be accepted as real, a given, something students and the teacher can count on from each other.
Second, humor must evolve as not just okay but absolutely necessary, from students and their teacher.
Third, given students the responsibility to get the teacher's attention by given them options. I tell students that can raise their hand but just speaking up then they think it's a good time is fine with me. Traditionally, speaking up is not proper etiquette. Seldom to students who feel appreciated, trusted and valued, abuse this act. Normally, they speak afer a point is made, and if they interrupt slightly, well, is form more important than content? Traditional etiquette many times kills good ideas, the desire and opportunity to learn.

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